Choosing Obedience Over Survival Instinct in Pursuit of God's Will

Walking in God’s plan often means facing discomfort and challenges that test our natural instincts. The survival instinct, deeply rooted in human nature, pushes us to protect ourselves, avoid risk, and seek comfort. Yet, this instinct can stand in direct opposition to following God’s will, which sometimes calls for sacrifice, trust, and obedience beyond what feels safe or natural.

The Bible offers clear guidance on this tension. In 1 Peter 4:1-2 (NKJV), it says:

"Therefore, since Christ suffered for us in the flesh, arm yourselves also with the same mind, for he who has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin, that he no longer should live the rest of his time in the flesh for the lusts of men, but for the will of God."

This passage challenges believers to adopt the mindset of Christ, who endured suffering and chose obedience over comfort. This blog explores why survival instinct can keep us out of God’s will and how choosing obedience leads to spiritual growth and fulfillment.

Understanding the Conflict Between Survival Instinct and God’s Will

Survival instinct is the natural drive to protect ourselves from harm and ensure our well-being. It influences many decisions, often pushing us to avoid discomfort, risk, or uncertainty. While this instinct is essential for physical survival, it can become a barrier when God calls us to step out in faith.

The phrase “lust of men” in 1 Peter 4:2 is often misunderstood as only referring to sexual immorality. In reality, it includes broader desires rooted in the flesh, including the survival instinct. This instinct can manifest as fear of loss, reluctance to change, or clinging to security.

Jesus addressed this when He said in Matthew 6:24-33 that those who focus on their life’s needs and survival cannot fully serve God. He urged believers to trust God for provision and prioritize His kingdom over earthly concerns.

The Discomfort of Obedience

Obedience to God often involves discomfort because it requires us to surrender control and self-reliance. This discomfort is not necessarily physical suffering like sickness or poverty but a spiritual and emotional challenge.

For example, when God calls someone to a new ministry, a move, or a difficult decision, the natural response is to resist because it threatens security. The discomfort comes from stepping into the unknown and trusting God’s provision.

Hebrews 5:8-9 explains that Jesus learned obedience through suffering. His example shows that suffering and obedience are connected. When we suffer discomfort for God’s will, we grow in obedience and cease from sin, which is disobedience.

Real-Life Example: Moving Beyond Comfort to Trust God

A powerful example comes from a couple who felt God’s call to move to Tulsa, Oklahoma, to attend Rhema Bible College. They were pastoring full time with a secure position and a steady support system. Moving meant leaving all that behind, facing uncertainty about housing, finances, and community.

Their survival instinct urged them to stay where it was safe. Yet, they chose obedience. Their support vanished as people left the church, and they had no clear plan for their needs. This discomfort tested their faith deeply.

Over time, they learned to rely fully on God. This experience taught them that obedience requires trusting God beyond what feels safe. Their survival instinct had to take a backseat to God’s plan.

How to Choose Obedience Over Survival Instinct

Choosing obedience is not easy, but it is essential for walking in God’s will. Here are practical steps to help:

• Recognize the survival instinct

Understand when fear or desire for security is influencing your decisions.

• Focus on God’s promises

Meditate on scriptures that remind you of God’s faithfulness and provision.

• Pray for strength and clarity

Ask God to help you overcome fear and give you courage to obey.

• Take small steps of faith

Obedience grows as you practice trusting God in smaller areas.

• Seek support from a faith community

Surround yourself with people who encourage obedience and trust in God.

The Reward of Obedience

Obedience leads to spiritual freedom and growth. When we stop living for the lusts of men, including survival instinct, we align with God’s purpose. This alignment brings peace, joy, and fulfillment that surpasses earthly comfort.

Choosing obedience also deepens our relationship with God. It moves us from self-reliance to God-reliance, which is the foundation of a strong faith.

Choosing obedience over survival instinct is a daily decision. It requires courage, trust, and a mindset shaped by Christ’s example. When we embrace this path, we open ourselves to the abundant life God promises.